
Knee-deep Lake Cootharaba had never appealed since a camping trip many years ago. The foreshore is windy and the mosquitos rampant. However, this was an opportunity to scrutinise the Rolling Solo women’s group in a camping environment. Lunch with them in a Tweed Heads tavern a previous week was pleasant. The women are vibrant, go-getters who will not let life’s many challenges hold them back.
Our camping area was like a mini caravan show with all sorts of rigs: campervans, tents, car camping, caravans and huge mobile homes. Nowhere did I sense a sense of superiority or condescension related to the type of rig each woman has.
The simplicity of a campervan hit home as I observed some women grappling with not only reversal allocated spots but unhooking rigs to free the car hauler. One dear soul was heard to say , “My husband always did this.” You had to admire this seventies something woman who was determined to carry on with her life much the same as when she had her dear partner.
Yes the group consists of women with varied stories and histories. A sweet fifties something had only lost her husband last year to bowel cancer and this was her first Solo event. She sat quietly at the group dinner, gently smiling at the chatter of those around her. Another, who had nursed her husband for some time before he died, struggled to overcome her shyness and speak to the more lively around her. Sandra, a country woman leaves her husband behind to join many Solo events as, according to her, “He just wants to sit at home and watch TV”. There she was, an intelligent and energetic woman who tows the family caravan around by herself while hubby indeed sits at home.
Rolling Solo and its members are awesome. The women are full of life, stories and have a “heightened sensitivity to the promises of life” (a favourite quote from The Great Gatsby) in venturing out to see Australia and meet other like-minded women.
On the traveller note, the everglades tour was worth it – such a variety of plants and trees and the black waters hold crystal clear reflections. The national park is indeed a gift to the nation.

